Joining with the community that is Five Minute Friday with the lovely Lisa Jo Baker. We like to write, not for comments or traffic or anyone else’s agenda. But for pure love of the written word. For joy at the sound of syllables, sentences and paragraphs all strung together by the voice of the speaker.
Five minutes on AFTER
Strange
how some of those songs they use for the slow-dances are about after love has
left the room. Your Dad and I were in the same class at school for the first
time in the same year that ‘After the
love has gone’ was in the charts.
‘Miss
my baby’ was playing on the radio when we drove away leaving you behind to live
for nearly a year without us. A man-child of fifteen years having to navigate
his own after living with another
family who were familiar, yet strange, because they were not your blood family.
We drove up the little hill with heavy hearts as a separated family the rest of us to continue life in a place that was planted on much bigger hills and deeper valleys. What we didn't know was that
this after was just the start of a
season of deeply experienced afters.
Cancer,
fractured relationships, death.
But you
have now just had your first year of after
as a married man. And you would not be the person you are without those afters of premature separation from the core
of your family.
In the midst of those years of the long after
we sang these words together at your grandmother’s funeral.
Jesus
the keeper of all our afters.
My
hope I cannot measure, my path to life is free
My
Saviour has my treasure, and He will walk with me
Wow. What an incredibly beautiful tribute to your son. After what was a very difficult time.
ReplyDeleteHey there thanks for dropping by & for your comment (but sorry I am such a div, I totally forgot to publish it when you wrote it!)
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